{"id":146,"date":"2017-03-08T13:08:54","date_gmt":"2017-03-08T11:08:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/?p=146"},"modified":"2017-03-28T11:39:23","modified_gmt":"2017-03-28T09:39:23","slug":"my-book-without-goodbye-is-available%f0%9f%98%8a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/?p=146","title":{"rendered":"Why I wrote my book Without Goodbye&#x1f60a;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/IMG_7406.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/IMG_7406-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-141\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/IMG_7406-200x300.jpg 200w, http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/IMG_7406.jpg 231w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a>His death was unexpected and hard to digest. Like most people I was not prepared for everything that the death of a loved one implicates. My journey through grief took me places I had not anticipated or foreseen. It changed me into another version of me, today I&#8217;m definitely more compasioned and open.  It showed me that there  is no right way to anything, and neither  is there only one way. Judgement has it&#8217;s utility but it also has a tendency to take over.  I can honestly say that I grew from my grief, which may sound strange, but to me it was deeply revealing how my pain and despair gave me a sensitivity, empathy and awareness that other wise I might not have experienced.<br \/>\nI&#8217;ve learned the hard way, I can only hope that reading my book will inspire people to look at me and say; Because of you and your book I didn&#8217;t give up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>His death was unexpected and hard to digest. Like most people I was not prepared for everything that the death of a loved one implicates. My journey through grief took me places I had not anticipated or foreseen. It changed me into another version of me, today I&#8217;m definitely more compasioned and open. It showed [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=146"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":151,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146\/revisions\/151"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}