{"id":35,"date":"2015-06-20T13:07:46","date_gmt":"2015-06-20T11:07:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/?p=35"},"modified":"2016-08-13T17:11:56","modified_gmt":"2016-08-13T15:11:56","slug":"when-to-instigate-change-after-the-death-of-your-beloved","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/?p=35","title":{"rendered":"When to instigate change after the death of your beloved?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-95\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image6-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"image\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image6-199x300.jpg 199w, http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image6.jpg 425w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a>Once you are over the initial shock, and the harsh reality finally hits you, you may wonder if you are ready to instigate change?<\/p>\n<p>Most likely, everyone around you thinks that you should, but do not let anyone rush you, take all the time that you need and for as long as it takes.<\/p>\n<p>At some point though you will need to redefine patterns to get more clarity and insight in your life.<\/p>\n<p>In my experience, life has its own way of letting you know when the right moment has arrived.<br \/>\nOnce you have learned to accept that the love of your life is not coming back and your day by day is starting to feel empty and unsatisfactory.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Once you are over the initial shock, and the harsh reality finally hits you, you may wonder if you are ready to instigate change? Most likely, everyone around you thinks that you should, but do not let anyone rush you, take all the time that you need and for as long as it takes. At [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=35"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":127,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35\/revisions\/127"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=35"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=35"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=35"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}