{"id":43,"date":"2014-10-23T16:14:34","date_gmt":"2014-10-23T14:14:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/?p=43"},"modified":"2015-06-21T15:40:35","modified_gmt":"2015-06-21T13:40:35","slug":"time-does-not-heal-all-wounds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/?p=43","title":{"rendered":"Time does not heal all wounds."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image1-181x300.jpg\" alt=\"image\" width=\"181\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-85\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image1-181x300.jpg 181w, http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image1.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 181px) 100vw, 181px\" \/><\/a>I do not believe that time heals all wounds, but I do believe it creates new patterns. And that those can become helpful tools to lessen the the sharpness of the pain felt.<\/p>\n<p>The scar however remains, maybe not visible to others, but to you it will always be there! It is your remembrance of the hurt and the pain suffered.<\/p>\n<p>His death has left you with an immense sense of emptiness, a hole that will always be part of you. And in a way that is a good thing for it has earned its own right to be there. Once it was filled with the person you loved so much.<\/p>\n<p>Sadness and loneliness but even anger are taking over, and are in desperate need of processing.<\/p>\n<p>And it is entirely up to you to convert the overwhelming despair you feel inside into acceptance, instead of bitterness. <\/p>\n<p>To not give up on hope!  No one else can do that for you.<\/p>\n<p>Mourning is a premier response to loss, and death is very much part of life.  But we have become too disconnected, and are hardly receptive to our spiritual inner selves to cope with something as natural as death.<\/p>\n<p>We need to come to peace with this, and be grateful for all that was and for everything that still is.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I do not believe that time heals all wounds, but I do believe it creates new patterns. And that those can become helpful tools to lessen the the sharpness of the pain felt. The scar however remains, maybe not visible to others, but to you it will always be there! It is your remembrance of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":110,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43\/revisions\/110"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}