{"id":49,"date":"2015-01-23T14:50:03","date_gmt":"2015-01-23T12:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/?p=49"},"modified":"2015-06-21T19:16:04","modified_gmt":"2015-06-21T17:16:04","slug":"remembering-the-true-importance-in-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/?p=49","title":{"rendered":"Accepting the death of a loved one."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image5-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"image\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-89\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image5-200x300.jpg 200w, http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/image5.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a>Sometimes it is not about having time at all, but about making time.<br \/>\nTime to remember what made your soul smile.<\/p>\n<p>For when you loose someone very dear and near, you enter a two-dimensional world, where everything is flat. Sorrow is so overpowering that it takes the depth out of your perception. And as tempting as it is to drown in the darkness that surrounds you, in order to survive you may need to return to the essence of your own existence and embrace life itself. <\/p>\n<p>While mourning it is easy to forget about your needs. You just do not care.<br \/>\nBut in life there is always something to be grateful for,even in your darkest hours.<br \/>\nMost likely,being appreciative, will not ease your pain but it can help you grow.<br \/>\nMaybe even help you understand.<\/p>\n<p>And understanding prevails over knowledge.<br \/>\nUnderstanding may lead you to the acceptance of what is, instead of yearning for what once was.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day it is all about accepting fate and to continue living.<br \/>\nFor as much as we all detest changes,they are inevitable.<br \/>\nLiving in the present and focussing more on what we still have, and less on what we have lost, can help fill the humongous gap that their death left behind.<\/p>\n<p>May be the best way to honor their absence is by celebrating life and living each day as the precious gift it is.<br \/>\nFor sometimes all we need, is more time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes it is not about having time at all, but about making time. Time to remember what made your soul smile. For when you loose someone very dear and near, you enter a two-dimensional world, where everything is flat. Sorrow is so overpowering that it takes the depth out of your perception. And as tempting [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=49"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":109,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49\/revisions\/109"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=49"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=49"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fleurhols.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=49"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}